The Year of Glorious Lasting Love

Do you want this to be the year you experience the power and glory of lasting love? Are you thinking this is the year you are going to find your true love or marry your true love?

Maybe you’re planning on getting in great shape. Or changing careers and doing something meaningful and fun?

There are four steps to having what you want in your life. Make sure you get clear on what you want – write down all the details. Then set your intention, believe and take action.

So what does that actually look like? Let’s take the example of finding glorious lasting love with your ideal partner.

Step one: You want to know who your ideal partner is. I’ll add a list of questions in the Resource section of this ezine that you can use to put together your description. You need to know who this person is, so you know whom to attract.

Step two: Set your intention. “It is my intention to attract and be in a relationship with my ideal partner within the first three months of 2007.” Or, “it’s my intention to attract, begin to date and get to know the man or woman of my dreams.” “It’s my intention to experience lasting, glorious love with my partner.”

Step three: You need to believe this will happen. Any doubts, or fears, need to be processed so you can move beyond them. You can’t attract what you want from a place of doubt and fear.

Step four: Take some action. Get out into the world. That is your way of saying yes to meeting people. Let your friends and co-workers know you want to meet your ideal partner. Join a wine club, a travel group, or a networking group. Join an online dating service. They work, if you believe.

These steps are easy and there is usually only one step where we all get tripped up and lose our focus – step three.

The Rear View Mirror Trap

To keep doubt and fear from blocking what will naturally flow to you, don’t look in the rear view mirror. Drive through this year of your life with your eyes focused on the road in front of you.

So many people spend so much time looking in the rear view mirror of life, that they don’t move forward.

See if you hear yourself saying any of the following things: “Every man I’ve ever dated always thought I was great at first but then lost interest. Why should this new man be any different?” “I’ve never been able to stick to a fitness program before, why do I think I’ll succeed this time?” “I tried and failed to make money doing something I love. I should just stick with this safe job.”

If those thoughts, or similar negative thoughts, are in your mind, then you’re looking in the rear view mirror.

The past doesn’t determine your future. You create your future with your present thoughts. If you focus on the past, you will get more of the past.

Remember, you get what you think about, whether you want it or not. Your thoughts create your reality.

So choose to positively create your life.

Choose what you want to attract to your life this year. Write it down, say it out loud, believe and take appropriate action. And keep believing. And when the doubt comes in, tell it to go away. Go back to believing.

Believing is a choice. Not believing is also a choice. Your choice.

Choose to dream. Choose to know that your dreams will be answered if you follow the four simple steps.

imagine the possibilities…

© Carol Chanel