How to Stop Blocking What You Want!

First, let me tell you the Laws of the Universe say that you can have anything you want – great health, prosperity, loving relationships.

It’s going to make a huge difference in your life when you understand how you’re resisting or blocking your desires and dreams.

According to Abraham in his new book, “Ask and It Is Given,” there are three steps to getting what you want. Steps one and three are your job, step two is Source’s job.

Step One – Ask for what you want
Step Two – The Source / God force provides it for you – in all cases
Step Three – Allow it and receive what you asked for

It’s in Step Three that we all block the flow. How do we do that?

We do it by saying, “yes, BUT.” For example, “I want a new car, BUT I can’t afford it.” “I want a new home, BUT everything is so expensive.” “I’m not happy in my relationship, BUT I’m afraid I’ll never find anyone else.”

Let’s look at a client scenario that I know will make this even clearer.

Maggie worked for a high-tech company and made big money. She didn’t enjoy the people, especially her boss and she hated the hours. They would work her seven days a week if she let them – and she did let them, until she started coaching with me.

During our coaching she learned how to set boundaries, not to take things personally, to get along with her boss. She negotiated a huge raise and she still wasn’t happy.

But she wasn’t willing to quit. She was afraid to walk away from all that money. Those golden handcuffs. She kept working on herself, and one day something clicked inside her. Maggie gave notice and didn’t have another job lined up. She decided to take a few months off and take a fabulous vacation.

When we looked at her decision, Maggie said, “I woke up one day and knew I would be fine if I quit my job. I just couldn’t stay there any longer. I had to live my life the way I wanted to live it.” Yea Maggie!

Maggie gave one-month notice and made sure everything was handled before she left. Here’s the best part of the story.

Before she could leave on her vacation she got four calls for job interviews. Maggie got her dream job, in her dream city with wonderful people, who share her values of humor, fun, work and balance.

So what did Maggie do? She stopped saying BUT. She stopped creating resistance to what Source wanted to give her – a new perfect job.

She trusted that she would be fine. She took action to show the Universe she was serious. And the Divine Source, because she had asked for what she wanted, provided it, and she received it. The three steps.

Maggie is so happy because she said YES. Can you imagine the rest of her life?

Let me give you a literal life and death example. I have a close family member who has survived a vicious form of cancer for 13 years now. I listened to him being interviewed the other day and thought – he never says BUT. He doesn’t say, “I want to live, but maybe I won’t find the right doctor or medicine.” He does say, “I want to live.” He doesn’t create resistance to Source sending him what he needs. And when so many others have died from this cancer, he is still alive, working full time and enjoying his life. Don’t tell him he can’t live!

You have to allow and receive.

Whatever you do, don’t settle for things that are intolerable to you. That includes relationships, homes, jobs. Do the three steps. They are Laws and they work. The only reason they aren’t working in your life is you aren’t allowing, you are unconsciously resisting. Stop resisting and start allowing.

Never forget you are connected to a Divine Source that unconditionally loves you and will give you anything you ask for. Let yourself be loved!

Happy dreaming creating and receiving!

imagine the possibilities…

© Carol Chanel