Are You Staying Too Long?

Do you notice you stay in relationships too long? Do you stay in jobs too long? Or stick with people who clearly pull down your energy – a friend or employee?

Why stay when it clearly isn’t working?

There’s usually one answer. Fear! Usually people are afraid they’ll never meet another man or woman. They’ll be alone and sad. They’ll never find another job; they’ll be broke and homeless. They’ll be punished for removing themselves from a negative friend.

Notice when you think from fear you’ve projected into the future and your thought about the future is negative. Why? You have a choice. You can choose positive or negative. Why choose the negative?

Better yet, come back to the present. The only way to guarantee what the future holds is through your thoughts.

THE UNIVERSAL “LAWS”

In my last ezine, in the Resources section, I mentioned a fabulous book “A NEW BEGINNING II” by Abraham-Hicks. He writes about the “laws” of the Universe.

There are some “laws” that operate in the universe and one of them is the “Law of Attraction.”

You attract what you think about. Simple. Factual. So if you think you aren’t ever going to meet another love of your life, you won’t. If you think you won’t find a good paying job, you won’t. Want to choose differently?

Your thoughts create your reality. You attract what you think about and feel. YOU create what you want. Deliberately create it. Or YOU block it.

If you are with a man or woman who doesn’t want to settle down and you do, don’t stay hoping they’ll change. They just told you their truth.

If you’re in a job and they don’t respect you, why stay? Draw your boundaries, and if that works, great. If not, get moving.

We either deliberately create our reality or we create it by default. Which path are you on? Deliberate or default?

I notice my clients who make a lot of money don’t have self-worth issues. My clients who attract love and commitment don’t have self-love issues. My clients who have purposeful careers don’t have fulfillment issues.

One of my clients recently got engaged. She doesn’t have issues that men won’t love her. Because she’s not fearful about that, she attracted a fabulous man who loves her and wants to commit.

It’s so simple. I know it’s not easy. But it is simple. You are attracting your reality. What you see in your life is how you think. The car you drive, your relationships, your clothes, your job. So to change what you see, change your thinking.

Choose differently, think differently and you will attract differently.

If you want to attract love – the kind of love you want – then believe you are worthy of it. If anyone told you that you weren’t worthy or gave you that impression, they were lying. Change your mind. Don’t believe the lies.

We are all connected to Source. That means we are all worthy of anything and everything we want.

ATTRACTION EXERCISE

Here’s what I’d like you to try. Think of all the things you attract effortlessly. Then think about something you want, something simple and easy to attract. Feel the joy of having it, the purpose of having it, set your intention and attract it.

Notice it was easy to do. You do it all the time; you just don’t pay much attention to it, because it’s not a challenge for you. We are always attracting.

Then pick something that is a bigger challenge for you like finding the answer to a problem, getting trustworthy guidance on a financial issue, finding the right photographer or graphic artist. Pick something that is a stretch.

Set the intention, believe, open the floodgates, get out of the way, attract it and allow yourself to receive it.

Keep doing this until you get to your most challenging situation. It’s no different. You just think it is. It’s just your thoughts and feelings that make it different.

Trust the Universe, trust your connection to Source, trust you will attract whatever you desire. Then move your resistance aside and let it come in.

imagine the possibilities…

© Carol Chanel